As God as my witness, I’ll be more organized this summer, I told myself in May. The kids will clean up after themselves every day without complaint. And I won’t buy another pair of goggles until we find the ones we lost, dang it!
Lies, all lies. With summer coming to a wrap, my closets now have a Hoarders vibe, my kids’ playroom is the scene of a Twister remake, and our family owns approximately 722 pairs of Target dollar spot goggles that keep showing up in random locations, like inside our deep freezer.
Since summer was a bust, it was time for a personal intervention to prep for the upcoming school year. So I turned to Lizzy Kline, mom of four and owner of Happy Spaces by Lizzy, a professional organization service in St. Louis, for a few quick tips. As a renowned organizer and former social worker, Kline knows the impact a clutter-free home can have on one’s psyche, especially during the school year madness.
“We feel so overwhelmed by the clutter in our house, we don’t know what’s there,” she said. “We end up going to the store and buying things we already have, which just adds to the pile. When your life and home are more organized, your mind is able to think clearer. It goes to a simpler place that’s not consumed by ‘stuff.’ You feel lighter and are able to leave the house faster.”
Get a head start on school
If you wait until the first day of school to put your organization plan into motion, you’re already a step behind. Hit the start button today to be prepared for the chaos coming your way.
“If a kid has 8,000 pairs of socks, they’re constantly changing them and leaving them around the house. If they only have a few, they know it’s all they have until laundry day.”
“When everything the child needs for school is always accessible, everyone is calmer. You’re not hunting under beds or closets for their shoes and jackets.”
Keeping the chaos of chores to a minimum
Once school hits, every minute of a parent’s day is consumed by something – whether it’s running kids to practice, cooking them dinner, or washing an endless avalanche of clothes. Take a step back and find ways to minimize your work.
“Hanging up a book bag is a no-brainer, but even the smallest jobs are so helpful for the family. You’ll likely have to keep reminding your kids, but once they get it, your house no longer looks like a dumping ground for shoes and socks.”
By the time kids are seven years old, they should have daily chores of their own, from taking out trash to putting laundry away. By having children knock out these little chores, parents can focus on the more time-consuming, heavy-duty cleaning projects.
Best of all, when your home life is more organized, you can find more time in your day to enjoy some well-deserved me-time – which you especially need after three months home with the kids.
As a social worker at heart, Kline knows part of a simpler life means focusing on self-care when they days get overly hectic. “Life can be overwhelming for every parent,” she said. “Take a bubble bath, go for a jog, do some yoga. You need to do something for yourself every day to feel like a normal human being.”
For even more home organization tips, check out Kline on Instagram at happyspacesbylizzy.
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Metro East mom Nicole Plegge has written for STL Parent for more than 12 years. Besides working as a freelance writer & public relations specialist, and raising two daughters and a husband, Nicole's greatest achievements are finding her misplaced car keys each day and managing to leave the house in a stain-free shirt. Her biggest regret is never being accepted to the Eastland School for Girls. Follow Nicole on Twitter @STLWriterinIL
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