There are some places kids just don’t want to be at school:
While I can’t help much with #1 or #2, there’s certainly nothing to fear about #3. In fact, the nurse might just be a pretty nice person who actually enjoys seeing kids when they’re healthy.
“Nurses LOVE to meet students as soon as possible,” said Lisa Harnacker, the Parkway School District’s health services manager, via e-mail. “It is always helpful to meet the younger child, who might be a little shy or cautious of the school nurse, as well as the older child who might be more verbal and able to care for himself.
“At any age, getting to know your school nurse is important so a positive relationship can begin as soon as possible,” continued Harnacker, who oversees all the district’s school nurses. “Children who do not necessarily have a specific health concern should also stop by and meet the nurse. She is there for ALL students!”
Of course, students with a medical condition that could impact their school day – food allergies, asthma or the need for medication to be taken during school hours – are one of school nurse’s priorities. Richelle S. Clark, manager of the Office of Health Services at St. Louis Public Schools, said it’s important that not only nurses but other staff members get to know these children, both by name and by face.
“The students who have the life-threatening allergies will also be introduced to the cafeteria staff if it is a food allergy,” Clark said via e-mail, “and all students who need to take medications during the school day must be introduced to the trained designated medication givers who assist students in the absence of the school nurse.”
In addition to getting to know the student, Clark and Harnacker said, school nurses also prefer to get to know the parents. This is the time of year when parents should be putting together the paperwork their child’s school needs and scheduling a meeting.
Clark explained how the process usually works: “The parent/guardian would bring the appropriate action plan from the prescribing physician and/or primary care provider stating the specific condition (asthma, sickle cell disease, diabetes, life-threatening allergy, seizure disorder, etc) and any other directions for medications that must be administered during the regular school day and any other accommodations that must be provided.
“They would then have a one on one discussion with the school nurse about all the information,” she went on. “When the students are old enough … and certainly if they are going to self-carry their medication, they must participate in the conversation. Parents/guardians should also bring in an updated physical exam report each year to help with the development of the individual student health plan.”
However, for families who haven’t been through the process before, this can be daunting. “We find that often parents are unaware of what type of paperwork or ‘order’ from the physician is necessary,” Harnacker said, “so parents should feel free to contact their building RN and ask!” And if parents aren’t able to make it to school to meet in person, “with the use of technology, forms can be emailed or faxed, so conversations can occur over the phone.”
Both Clark and Harnacker emphasized the extreme care their school districts place on confidentiality of records, accuracy of treatment, and sharing of information between the schools and the physicians. Details of the exact routines vary by school − and if you’re concerned about yours you should definitely ask − but the examples I received from these two districts about training, protocols and medication storage procedures are reassuringly thorough.
So, you might be asking, what do school nurses do for children without specific health conditions? Their job extends to diverse areas including physical exams (yes, someone does actually look at those after you send them in!), preventive care, health insurance, medical homes, sick-child care, head lice, immunizations and much more.
When asked how parents can best support the school nurses’ work, Clark and Harnacker responded that parents need to provide updated contact information, especially home and cell phone numbers and e-mail addresses where you or an emergency contact can be reached during the school day.
They also suggested that parents:
By Amy De La Hunt, Health Blogger for SmartParenting
Amy De La Hunt is a journalist and editor who lives in the St. Louis metro area and works across the country as a writer, copy editor, project manager and editorial consultant on everything from fiction books to monthly magazines to blog posts. When she's not chauffeuring her teenage sons to activities, Amy is an enthusiastic amateur cook, landscaper, Latin dancer and traveler. Follow Amy on Instagram @amy_in_words
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